Shebar, as the name suggested, used to be the only bar for lesbian women only. Should change the name into "Queer bar" now, as there are not only women anymore.
Sinead Leader
Great place and alright music the vibe is great. Recommend making the most of the cloakroom because it gets STEAMY! Not in the way you’d like ?. Music is okay drinks are London priced and the queue was around a hour at 11 we came from Manchester so not used to the long queues but worth a visit. Love that the staff on the door were active on protecting this queer space! Made for a great vibe once inside!
Charmaine Lehabe
I had a great time. Great amazing people that I met.
I B
Nice friendly vibe. Went to support a friend. Very cute basement with lovely lights and a lovely drag queen as a DJ.
Lily
Echoing another review, the experience can be quite hit-or-miss depending on the dj :). Off-pace music most weekends with unrecognizable songs..last friday was a definite blast with dj varja however and everyone was having the best time, will be keeping an eye out until they come back! Staff are always very welcoming and helpful and the venue is nice and cozy xx
Chyna Stephenson
I’ve been coming here ever since my first visit to london and I absolutely enjoy she bar . I’m always greeted by the lovely ginger security guard who never fails to give me a warm welcoming smile upon entering , when you get down stairs there is such a warm and welcomed atmosphere , the music is always a 10 and I would definitely recommend this place to every lesbian I know ! Can’t wait to go back again!!
_.N A B._
Favourite place in the world. Go very frequently and the entire staff and security are incredible. Have never felt safer at any bar or club. Constantly recommending to bring everyone I know
wen yu
This place is full of lies, violence and discrimination as I witnessed the whole incident on Saturday night. They’re still lying at this point because from what I can recall the security did not ask people to leave “multiple times”. She only said it once to the people in the queue (including myself) and we did not even have any time to react. Then suddenly the violence happened and I was too scared so I ran out immediately. I did not feel safe during my stay at this bar and will never recommend it to any of my lesbian friends. Such a shame to the lgbt+ community ?
Logan Doe
The security guard seemed to exhibit severe racial bias and a tendency towards violence. I am sad that my favourite place is rude by this security. I will never come back again or recommend this place to any non-white peopleMy friend and I, both Asians, joined a queue to enter a dance floor, observing everyone else doing the same. A blonde security guard approached from the bottom of the stairs, bypassing all the white people in line ahead of us, and singled us out, instructing us to leave. When I questioned why she didn't speak to the white people, she reluctantly told them to leave, but upon their loud refusal, she turned and forcefully pushed us away. My friend, caught off guard, fell to the ground.Safety Concern: The security guard's action of pushing people on the stairs to the floor is extremely dangerous. A fall in such a place could lead to serious injury.Racial Discrimination: The fact that the guard only used force against Asian women, ignoring the white women in a predominantly white queue, is a clear instance of racial discrimination.
Georgina Tang
I was assaulted at this bar by the pathetic RACIST ginger female security. I encourage anyone who had similar experiences with this bar or this person to contact me, and I will jointly report to the police (can already see similar reviews). My friend suggested going to the basement for dancing, so four of us joined the queue on the stairs, but a very overweight white female security guard arrived, asking everyone to leave as the basement was full. Some white girls provocatively challenged her, rolling their eyes, saying they were not leaving. Instead of addressing them, she turned to us 4 Chinese girls, asking us to leave. Before we could even respond, she immediately grabbed me, pushing me onto the steps. I said don't touch me, but she continued pushing and pulling me intentionally. I called the police, and even during the call, she persisted in her absolutely unnecessary violence. I stood up and said I could walk by myself, but she pushed me down the stairs again purposely so she could drag me up. Two white girls witnessed everything and stood up for me and had an argument with her. But they were too scared to wait for the police to come and said they didn't want trouble and left, which is understandable, especially when I see how the police reacted.When the police (all white) arrived, this female security guard quickly went with them to review the CCTV, likely embellishing the situation. She seems very experienced with how to get away with this sort of situation. We explained the incident to the rest of the police officers, but they liked to believe the security guard over us and the surveillance lacked audio to prove our side of the story. The police said that private property allows the use of reasonable force if someone refuses to leave (which is a total lie because we didn't even say no or have the time to say no), and they said bars like this tend to do it. Even though it is very clear that the pathetic ginger security took it out on us 4 Chinese girls who said nothing, while not even daring to respond to the white girls challenging her, they said because she didn't say anything racist, there's a lack of evidence that this is racism. I have consulted a friend who's a lawyer, and they said what the police said was ridiculous. We are 4 girls working in universities, investment banking and big fours, and we never treat anyone in the workplace like that. It's shocking to see people so unprofessional, rude, aggressive and racist can still be employed by this place. It's probably because I wasn't injured thanks to my thick down jacket, so the police couldn't be bothered to do anything. If a smaller person has been attacked by her, they could be hurt because she is very violent.The police said they would recheck the footage, but they were busy with fights and couldn't immediately prioritize our case. They also stated that they wouldn't arrest the security guard due to lack of evidence, and while they would file a report, the outcome was uncertain. They said maybe record videos next time because the CCTV wasn't very clear, but then they said maybe not because it's private property. This blatant bias towards racism and the security guard's exploitation of legal loopholes left me speechless. I have had random teenagers saying racist stuff at me in the past but this time physical assualt happened. I am still shaking from this public violence and insult, and it's been one day already. Do not go to this bar. They are doing this because they know they are the only lesbian bar in London, and they can get away with it. New edits: I have spoken to many people, and actually, a few other Chinese girls experienced very similar things from this same uncivilised overweight ginger female security. She is famous for violently targeting Asian women and getting away with the "they refuse to leave" line. I can't believe She Bar supports this racism and violence. Anyone with an ounce of self-respect should avoid this place.
Very rude bouncer and very small place. Will not go again.
Laura Malagon
Too crowded and very bad dj, because it’s a really small place. Not worth it.
Charlotte Healy
I find She to be a bit hit or miss depending on the DJ - it’s quite expensive, small and I didn’t realise it shut at 1 which feels quite early. The problem is that its clearly so expensive and crowded because they are the only exclusively lesbian venue so you can’t really fault them for that, but it does impact the experience a little bit imo. Great staff and usually a good night out! Once had a man be very homophobic whilst we were in the smoking area which upset my group, but staff were pretty on it and comforting. I’d love to come during the week for one of their events :)
MissusC
Had only one night in London while on holiday and happened upon this cute "underground" hole in the wall bar/club. The bartender recommended me a lovely drink that was low carb (I'm diabetic and don't drink much), much appreciated. Met some lovely people. The music was good and not played so loud that people had to yell at one another to have a decent convo, which was great. Good mix of young and old crowd, and the staff was friendly and non-pretentious, very "down to earth." Clean place. I had dinner plans elsewhere so I had to bolt just as things were perking up. Should I ever be so blessed to visit UK again I'm def stopping by again! Cheers from the States!
Shebar, as the name suggested, used to be the only bar for lesbian women only. Should change the name into "Queer bar" now, as there are not only women anymore.
Great place and alright music the vibe is great. Recommend making the most of the cloakroom because it gets STEAMY! Not in the way you’d like ?. Music is okay drinks are London priced and the queue was around a hour at 11 we came from Manchester so not used to the long queues but worth a visit. Love that the staff on the door were active on protecting this queer space! Made for a great vibe once inside!
I had a great time. Great amazing people that I met.
Nice friendly vibe. Went to support a friend. Very cute basement with lovely lights and a lovely drag queen as a DJ.
Echoing another review, the experience can be quite hit-or-miss depending on the dj :). Off-pace music most weekends with unrecognizable songs..last friday was a definite blast with dj varja however and everyone was having the best time, will be keeping an eye out until they come back! Staff are always very welcoming and helpful and the venue is nice and cozy xx
I’ve been coming here ever since my first visit to london and I absolutely enjoy she bar . I’m always greeted by the lovely ginger security guard who never fails to give me a warm welcoming smile upon entering , when you get down stairs there is such a warm and welcomed atmosphere , the music is always a 10 and I would definitely recommend this place to every lesbian I know ! Can’t wait to go back again!!
Favourite place in the world. Go very frequently and the entire staff and security are incredible. Have never felt safer at any bar or club. Constantly recommending to bring everyone I know
This place is full of lies, violence and discrimination as I witnessed the whole incident on Saturday night. They’re still lying at this point because from what I can recall the security did not ask people to leave “multiple times”. She only said it once to the people in the queue (including myself) and we did not even have any time to react. Then suddenly the violence happened and I was too scared so I ran out immediately. I did not feel safe during my stay at this bar and will never recommend it to any of my lesbian friends. Such a shame to the lgbt+ community ?
The security guard seemed to exhibit severe racial bias and a tendency towards violence. I am sad that my favourite place is rude by this security. I will never come back again or recommend this place to any non-white peopleMy friend and I, both Asians, joined a queue to enter a dance floor, observing everyone else doing the same. A blonde security guard approached from the bottom of the stairs, bypassing all the white people in line ahead of us, and singled us out, instructing us to leave. When I questioned why she didn't speak to the white people, she reluctantly told them to leave, but upon their loud refusal, she turned and forcefully pushed us away. My friend, caught off guard, fell to the ground.Safety Concern: The security guard's action of pushing people on the stairs to the floor is extremely dangerous. A fall in such a place could lead to serious injury.Racial Discrimination: The fact that the guard only used force against Asian women, ignoring the white women in a predominantly white queue, is a clear instance of racial discrimination.
I was assaulted at this bar by the pathetic RACIST ginger female security. I encourage anyone who had similar experiences with this bar or this person to contact me, and I will jointly report to the police (can already see similar reviews). My friend suggested going to the basement for dancing, so four of us joined the queue on the stairs, but a very overweight white female security guard arrived, asking everyone to leave as the basement was full. Some white girls provocatively challenged her, rolling their eyes, saying they were not leaving. Instead of addressing them, she turned to us 4 Chinese girls, asking us to leave. Before we could even respond, she immediately grabbed me, pushing me onto the steps. I said don't touch me, but she continued pushing and pulling me intentionally. I called the police, and even during the call, she persisted in her absolutely unnecessary violence. I stood up and said I could walk by myself, but she pushed me down the stairs again purposely so she could drag me up. Two white girls witnessed everything and stood up for me and had an argument with her. But they were too scared to wait for the police to come and said they didn't want trouble and left, which is understandable, especially when I see how the police reacted.When the police (all white) arrived, this female security guard quickly went with them to review the CCTV, likely embellishing the situation. She seems very experienced with how to get away with this sort of situation. We explained the incident to the rest of the police officers, but they liked to believe the security guard over us and the surveillance lacked audio to prove our side of the story. The police said that private property allows the use of reasonable force if someone refuses to leave (which is a total lie because we didn't even say no or have the time to say no), and they said bars like this tend to do it. Even though it is very clear that the pathetic ginger security took it out on us 4 Chinese girls who said nothing, while not even daring to respond to the white girls challenging her, they said because she didn't say anything racist, there's a lack of evidence that this is racism. I have consulted a friend who's a lawyer, and they said what the police said was ridiculous. We are 4 girls working in universities, investment banking and big fours, and we never treat anyone in the workplace like that. It's shocking to see people so unprofessional, rude, aggressive and racist can still be employed by this place. It's probably because I wasn't injured thanks to my thick down jacket, so the police couldn't be bothered to do anything. If a smaller person has been attacked by her, they could be hurt because she is very violent.The police said they would recheck the footage, but they were busy with fights and couldn't immediately prioritize our case. They also stated that they wouldn't arrest the security guard due to lack of evidence, and while they would file a report, the outcome was uncertain. They said maybe record videos next time because the CCTV wasn't very clear, but then they said maybe not because it's private property. This blatant bias towards racism and the security guard's exploitation of legal loopholes left me speechless. I have had random teenagers saying racist stuff at me in the past but this time physical assualt happened. I am still shaking from this public violence and insult, and it's been one day already. Do not go to this bar. They are doing this because they know they are the only lesbian bar in London, and they can get away with it. New edits: I have spoken to many people, and actually, a few other Chinese girls experienced very similar things from this same uncivilised overweight ginger female security. She is famous for violently targeting Asian women and getting away with the "they refuse to leave" line. I can't believe She Bar supports this racism and violence. Anyone with an ounce of self-respect should avoid this place.
Restaurantji Recommends
Very rude bouncer and very small place. Will not go again.
Too crowded and very bad dj, because it’s a really small place. Not worth it.
I find She to be a bit hit or miss depending on the DJ - it’s quite expensive, small and I didn’t realise it shut at 1 which feels quite early. The problem is that its clearly so expensive and crowded because they are the only exclusively lesbian venue so you can’t really fault them for that, but it does impact the experience a little bit imo. Great staff and usually a good night out! Once had a man be very homophobic whilst we were in the smoking area which upset my group, but staff were pretty on it and comforting. I’d love to come during the week for one of their events :)
Had only one night in London while on holiday and happened upon this cute "underground" hole in the wall bar/club. The bartender recommended me a lovely drink that was low carb (I'm diabetic and don't drink much), much appreciated. Met some lovely people. The music was good and not played so loud that people had to yell at one another to have a decent convo, which was great. Good mix of young and old crowd, and the staff was friendly and non-pretentious, very "down to earth." Clean place. I had dinner plans elsewhere so I had to bolt just as things were perking up. Should I ever be so blessed to visit UK again I'm def stopping by again! Cheers from the States!
Super cool place for my lgbt people ❤️